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Jud2 said: Today AM I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months. At the start I took her out on two dates and then for a week or so she stopped texting me, then came back out of the blue.

When can my boyfriend tell if i slept with someone else? why hiding infidelity might not be a good idea

We went out on a third date and then progressed through to our current relationship. I just found out that after she met me she went out on a girls night out and met someone else. She went on several dates with him and ended up sleeping with him. Our relationship was fine up until this discovery but this has upset me and caused me to think about whether we should continue even though I love her. Were you exclusive at the time?

If not then she had the right to do as she wanted……if you were exclusive then she cheated and is not worth your time, find a more honest GF. How did you find out? Did she tell you or someone else told you? Did you two have sex before she slept with someone else?

He slept with someone else before we were exclusive – 7 experts share their best tips + insights

In early dating, people often go out with a few people around the same time — sometimes this will progress to physical intimacy. She was single. I think you should give her a pass on this one. It was just casual dating at the time. When I met my BF of almost 4 years now, he was dating someone else for about 2 weeks. He was up front about it and told me I could do the same.

So we casually dated but realized within about 3 weeks we were awesome together so we both stopped dating others and became exclusive. You seemed to never have a conversation like this so I would not dwell on it. HOWEVER, I would have a conversation with her and let her know it bothers you but now that you are exclusive and in an established relationship you will not tolerate infidelity. Let her know where you stand and make sure she agrees with you. Once this is established if you both love each other you should be fine. This was just her casually dating until she found the man she wanted to be exclusive with.

She obviously chose you! Be happy about that and move forward. That is American style dating. Enjoy your relationship now and move on from the early dating.

When can my boyfriend tell if i slept with someone else? why hiding infidelity might not be a good idea

I think your title is inaccurate. She spent a couple weeks deciding whether or not she liked this other guy and in the end she picked you and here you are 10 months later. If your relationship was fine up to this point it should be fine again. You love her and I would treat this just like any other guy she slept with before you two start dating.

They are in the past.

He slept with someone else before we were exclusive – 7 experts share their best tips + insights

If you only went on 2 dates and did not have sex, then you need to let it go. If you slept together, this would be different. Dating or not dating casual or not casual, once you have sex, things change. Only two dates is just a start. Let it go kiddo. My advice to you is that,just stop that relationship, is it mandatory that you need to sleep with her to show that you are in a relationship? Learn from it and Change your Direction.

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I recommend this site for you. As alia said, this is American style dating where you treat sex like a commodity, have one night stands, sleep with people you barely know after a date or two, have high divorce rates then suddenly become prudish and upset when you realize the person you partnered with has been with a lot of people before and during you. I am I total agreement. She did nothing wrong but this shows she has wandering eyes as if she was Into you fully she would not have been sleeping with anyone else.

How if I clearly mentioned that she was not seeing anyone else during the time when we were going out, but later after being in a relationship after 8 months found out she was in a physical relationship with a guy for 3 whole months when we were dating. Need more info.

She swapped bodily fluids with this guy she barely knows, risked a possible pregnancy and STDs, and probably had her mouth on his genitals. I mean did she actually say she was assaulted? This is fine on your gfs part as it was Before you became exclusive that she was out with someone else. My main question is why are you stalking your gf on social media and pulling her apart? Dont you trust her?

She slept with someone else while we were dating

Are you abusive and controlling? And at that point of time she really was going through a break up. The problem is she wasnt fooling around with her ex, it was a different guy. Abusive… lol… I never even yell or shout at her the day I found the texts, just happened I woke up that time found her phone buzzing and saw those texts.

According to her she wanted me to see those texts. But after 8 months found she was actually sleeping with another guy at that point of time n claimed everything was by force, if she didnt commit to what that guy wanted he would threaten her with a knife.

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Your not wrong these people are crazy lol. Exclusive or not thats weird asf to do that to someone.

Women are hypocrites they judge men and play the victim card. Thats not how you treat someone then expect them to get over it. Bet if situation was reversed theyd still take the women side but paint you as the villain. If you get 2 dates with this girl then theyre right on that part should confirm if your in a relationship or not. Women have as much hoe tendencies as men she was chasing the dick then decided to go with you. I can give her credit for not lying about and youre exclusive now so try to work towards forgive and forget. Name required :. Mail will not be published required :. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc.

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May 29, at pm Reply. Amy S. May 31, at pm Reply. The problem is she wasnt fooling around with her ex, it was a different guy 2. According to her she wanted me to see those texts 3. July 7, at am Reply. What ever you have to think to make it right…. Reply To: She slept with someone else while we were dating Your information: Name required : Mail will not be published required : Website:.

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